Total Six Hours
3 hours first weekend and 3 hours second weekend
Due to the workshop constraints of social distancing, we are offering our workshop online on the Zoom.com platform.
Meeting participants will be able to ‘meet’ other couples online in real-time.
You will be able to hear and see each other in our online format. Participants will be also able to share and hear others share.
November 7, 8, 2020 & November 14, 15, 2020
* First weekend – November 7, 8, 2020
November 7, 2020 – Saturday from 8am to 9:30am
November 8, 2020 – Sunday from 1pm to 2:30pm
* Second weekend – November 14, 15, 2020
November 14, 2020 – Saturday from 8am to 9:30am
November 15, 2020 – Sunday from 1pm to 2:30pm
December 5, 6, 2020 & December 12, 13, 2020
December 5, 2020 – Saturday from 8am to 9:30am
December 6, 2020 – Sunday from 1pm to 2:30pm
* Second weekend: December 12, 13, 2020
December 12, 2020 – Saturday from 8am to 9:30am
December 13, 2020 – Sunday from 1pm to 2:30pm
February 6, 7, 2021 & February 13, 14, 2021
* First weekend: February 6, 7, 2021
February 6, 2021 – Saturday from 8am to 9:30am
February 7, 2021 – Sunday from 1pm to 2:30pm
* Second weekend: February 13, 14, 2021
February 13, 2021 – Saturday from 8am to 9:30am
February 14, 2021 – Sunday from 1pm to 2:30pm
Here are the seven areas of discussions explored in your workshop.
You will create agreements in these seven areas to include in your Two-Year Marriage Contract to be signed on the final day of your workshop.
FAIR FIGHTING— Houston, we have a problem
Fair Fighting is vital to a happy relationship to create trust and happiness.
Fight, but fight fairly. The number one reason for divorce is the habitual avoidance of conflict. Master four negotiation skills that will give you a happier marriage and help you create your Two-Year Marriage Contract.
SEX — Creating your Sexual Boudoir — Ohh Laa Laa
Learn new ways for creating passion in your marriage by asking and answering revealing questions about your preferences for foreplay, sexual intercourse, and afterglow. There’s nothing sexier than asking for what you want sexually and then getting exactly what you asked for from your lover. The answers to these 100 questions will be placed in a blank template at the end of the chapter that will become the draft for the Sex Section of your The Two-Year Marriage Contract.
MONEY – The Elephant in the Living Room
This chapter teaches you to work together as a financial team. It offers creative ways for discussing your current financial circumstances and invites you to plan for your financial future. Dream big. Plan your marriage around common joys and goals. Money may not buy happiness, but it can help your marriage.
FAMILY AND FRIENDS — Yours, Mine and Ours
There are more people in your marriage than just the two of you. There are also more than just the two of you in your marriage bed. This chapter shows you how to successfully manage all the relationships in your life as a gift to your marriage. Learn to live a life of quality relationships by learning
ROUTINES AND HABITS — Toothpaste Tubes and Dirty Tube Socks
Examine your daily personal habits and learn how they influence your marriage. You can change your marriage for the positive by changing yourself. Learn the secret formulas for effective personal change.
LIVING ARRANGEMENTS — There’s No Place like Here
Your home changes over the years as you move to accommodate the changes in your life. This chapter addresses your environmental needs as an important part of your marriage. Address your present living conditions and make plans for the future.
SOCIAL EXPECTATIONS — Recreation means Re-Creating Yourselves
Hobbies, friends, holidays, celebrations and parties are all ways to express your personality, and they are important components to the health of your marriage. Learn to play as a way to keep your marriage interesting and happy. How much play do you allow yourself? How happy will you allow yourself to become?
Formal Signing Ceremony of Two-Year Marriage Contract
Take your drafts that were provided at the end of each of the previous chapters in each section of the workshop and make a final document for signing.
Every two years you will take out your Two-Year Marriage Contract and talk about the seven issues again to make minor adjustments.
After you’ve completed the Seven Elements of Marriage, now it’s time for you to sign your Two-Year Marriage Contract agreement. Your agreements will be reexamined again in two years so you can re-officiate your Two-Year Marriage Contract.